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The first five conversations matter more than a perfect pitch

Learn how people describe the problem before asking them to care about your solution.

By Ashley Kays · The Wealth Experiment

When you are excited about an idea, it is natural to explain it quickly and ask, “Would you use this?” The problem is that a friendly answer can feel more conclusive than it is. A better early conversation gives the other person room to describe their own experience.

Ask about something that happened

Instead of asking whether someone might buy a hypothetical service, ask how they handled the task last time. What triggered the need? What did they try? Who was involved? What took longer than expected?

Specific stories help you see the work, the constraints, and the alternatives. Listen for the words people repeat. Those details can be more useful than your original pitch.

Look for the cost of leaving it alone

A problem can be annoying without being a buying priority. Ask what happens if it remains unsolved. Does it delay work, create rework, lose a customer opportunity, or simply feel untidy? You are learning where the problem sits among everything else the person needs to do.

Also ask who decides whether to spend money on it. The person experiencing the frustration and the person approving the work may be different.

Introduce a small, relevant offer

After you understand the situation, describe a focused way you might help. Explain the deliverable and ask what would need to be true for it to be useful. This is the moment to discover missing requirements, practical objections, and concerns about timing.

Do not turn every concern into something to overcome. A poor fit is information. You can narrow the audience or revise the offer without trying to convince everyone.

Agree on a real next step

If there is a fit, suggest a scope conversation, a sample, or a clearly defined pilot. Make the next step small and specific. If there is not a fit, thank them and record what you learned.

After five conversations, compare the notes. Look for repeated problems, actual workarounds, and concrete interest. Five conversations are a starting sample, not proof of an entire market. Use them to decide which question to test next.

Your next move

Write three questions about a recent real experience. Use them before describing your offer in your next customer conversation.

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